So long story short... my husband has been in the army for a little over a year, our relationship has always had issues(mental, emotional & physical abuse) he is on rotation right now & I've come to realize that I just don't love him anymore. I don't want to continue with the way things will always be. Anyways, he is a narcissist & has control issues... how do I go about leaving him? Should I tell him I don't wanna be with him? I'm scared he will take everything from me seeing as all I do is door dash & can't afford anything on my own at the moment. I don't want to continue to do what he says but I fear he will shut my phone off & remove me from our joint account before I could even set myself up. He has my location so he knows everywhere that I go.