My mil texted saying she was going out of town saturday(it’s currently Thursday) and wanted to see us before they leave. My husband works till 8 and the babies bedtime is at 8:30. I told her he was not off Friday and wouldn’t be home till late so I wasn’t sure we could make that work but we’d let her know for sure. Which was my polite way of saying no. This was at 8:30 this morning and at 6pm the hubby texted me saying she had texted him about doing dinner tomorrow(Friday) before they leave for out of town. I told him I had already spoke to her and let her know that we weren’t sure but it was probably a no since he was working and it’s was gonna be late for the baby…. He was so upset she had tried to undermine me by asking him after already speaking with me. So he texted her to ask why she did that and she never responded. WIN FOR THE WIFEY!!! Mother in laws dirty ways got called the fuck out today!!!