Hello everyone!
Today I'm going to share a piece of (perhaps controversial) advice based on my experience with hookups on Reddit. If you are a male, and are interested in meetups, messaging F4M accounts is generally a waste of time.
Why, you may ask? For these reasons:
🤖 They are most likely bots / fakes / attention seekers.
💅 The average woman on Reddit will not respect you, and for good reason; most men on Reddit are ugly goons who spams low-effort comments & DMs. You will be treated as such.
🙄 I've had only one success with a F4M post and have been ghosted/flaked more times than I can count.
If you do message F4M accounts:
Counter-intuitively, blank/new accounts are best. This means it was a spur-of-the-moment decision, and that they are looking for something soon. Profiles with tons of regular posts and pictures are more likely to be griefers or fakes.
What to do instead of message F4M accounts?
Work on yourself and your profile and those who are genuinely interested will message you. Post or engage with people so that interested parties can find you.
As far as courtesy and respect are concerned, couples are way better than singles. Couples (albeit occasionally immature) will treat you far better and will not ghost or flake nearly as often. I've found far more success here.
(Note: This is not a critique of women or those who make F4M posts, but rather my personal thoughts after seeing how most F4M interactions end up for me on this platform)
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