Hey all

Not a fresh account but far from the main. I'm in my early 30s, 6'6, white, chubby/bear/soft bod with a belly, dork/nerd, anxious, non monogamous and partnered. Looks wise- brown hair, blue eyes, couple tattoos, nose ring, balding so I'm either buzzed or shaved, fairly well kept beard (longer length). They/he pronouns

I've had zero direct experience with a fellow penis owner, for a variety of reasons, but I'd love to find a fwb. I do want to put an emphasis on the friend in fwb - I tilt a bit demisexual so I need to be comfortable being soft and open before I can get comfortable getting smutty.

But what am I looking? Well ideally I'd love to find someone who's a switch - all new territory for me so I'd love to find someone open to more than just one side

If you're looking for someone to explore a lot of kink with, I'm an awful fit. I've had a lot of experience with kink, have been a proper dom for a very long time. But at this point I know what I enjoy - and mellow, stoned, touch centric intimacy is my jam.

Also for the androgynous/femme note in the title - I spent some time thinking of how to best explain thos without it being an essay. But, in short, I don't feel comfortable with other mascs/men. I'm not the type of person to have any real preferences when it comes to a partners gender - but I'm just wanting to find someone who isn't traditionally masculine. I hope that made sense - but super happy to chat!

Past that - I'd love to find someone who can host. My partner knows I posted but not having to kick them out for a night would be preferred. I'm inching in on 34, so I'd prefer people 25 . And while I'm tall, and this is not a hard preference, a shorter masc would be very welcome!

SFW pics available to trade but I'd like to chat some first though.

Hope anyone who made it this far has a great night!