Hey there. 28-year-old masc gay dude in Warren who is an old-school gentleman, lover of music, old soul, 420 enthusiast and partaker in a wide variety of hobbies/pastimes. No games, drama or bullshit here. With me, what you see is what you get. Although my header may seem confusing or contradictory, here is the reason for my post... I've played around with and have also formed strong emotional with a handful of str8/curious/bi guys over the years. I have always felt like I'm in a safe space when I'm with them, allowing me to feel less judged and more able to be myself; both when casually hanging out with them in social settings and when playing together in bed with them. The gay 'community' is filled with toxic behavior like stigmas, body-shaming and cliques... all by the masses. I've found these toxic behaviors to be significantly less existant amongst the str8/bi/curious men, in general. FROM my experience, speaking on the ones I've had the privilege of getting to know on a romantic/FWB level. The few I've connected with always seemed to be able to show me the most love and the best kind of love that a guy has ever shown me. I've noticed a pattern in that these types of guys, who haven't been ruined by the toxic culture and stigmas of a 'community', are often more likely to have this comforting presence and a certain profound, warm and comforting touch that lights up the darkest of days and fills my heart. They also seem to be more focused on an emotional bond, rather than finding a Ken Doll with a plastic personality to be their boyfriend. So I'm opening the possiblilities up to something a little different. It's been my ultimate dream to quietly take a open-minded newbie, str8/curious/bi guy under my wing with no judgment or immediate expectations/pressure and lots of patience and understanding. I want him to feel comfortable and emotionally supported. Our situation can be kept quiet, out of respect for you, as I'M 100% AGAINST OUTING PEOPLE if they're not personaly ready. I'm looking for something that could start off as an ongoing FWB (not JUST the benefits) situation with the potential for it to become whatever we want it to become over time, depending on our feelings. I'm vers and tend to be a very thoughtful, romantic and hands-on affection type of guy. I work two jobs, one of them being a small business that I own and operate full time. Let's talk and go from there! DMs are open 🙂