If you are wondering why…I’ll be happy to tell you.

I want to start by sharing an experience I had recently. An older woman reached out to me about one of my posts, mentioning that she knew a guy who might help me financially. It seemed like a generous offer, but looking back, I realize she wasn't necessarily looking out for me—she was more concerned about her friend.

Her friend had expressed interest in meeting a Black woman, and when she saw my post, she thought it might be a good match. While I appreciate the effort to help, I want to make it clear that I'm not obligated to be attracted to anyone just because they show interest.

I was honest about not being physically attracted to her friend, but she took it personally and seemed offended. It felt like I was being criticized for my preferences, which was frustrating. I was open to exploring other possibilities, but her friend wanted what he wanted, so I told him good luck in his search and keep moving very polite and respectful so I don't think I should have gotten judged or ridiculed for not being interested.

It’s people like her and a lot of others that ruins the fun of showing myself off to you guys and even possibly making arrangements. Like she literally was like drilling me on why I didn’t find him attractive.

She insisted that physical appearance shouldn't matter if someone is offering financial support. While some people might be okay with casual encounters for money, I need more than that—I'm not looking for a relationship or commitment, but I do need a connection and a good vibe. Sex, whether it's paid or not, should be enjoyable and fun, not a chore. For me, being able to enjoy someone's company is a huge turn-on. I’m sorry if this sounds shallow, but being physically attracted to the person you’re with makes a big difference and sets the mood. I’m aware that I’m not everyone’s type, and that's okay. If someone isn’t interested, I respect that and move on.

So for her to behave the way she did, and like I said not just her.

I’m thinking of taking a break what do you guys think?

Am I wrong?

It kinda pissed me off that I even continue to explain my side of it I guys. Like idk 🤷🏾‍♀️