Hi everyone,

My name is Jim and I'm a heterosexual 40 year old male. My sex life with my partner has been inconsistent and unfulfilling at times, and as a result I've found myself VERY much at times intrigued by the idea of swinging. I've never done it before, nor do I personally know couples who have, but I wanted to get honest feedback as to if you men/women think Swinging would potentially be good for me (and my partner). My interests are:

1. Plain and simple, the opportunity to enjoy hot, physical sex with another woman....no emotional connection is craved by me. My girlfriend has a great rack, but a bit of a flat backside. To have sex with a woman whose butt is one of her best physical features...thinking about it makes me bite my lip.
2. Do things/positions another woman would enjoy that my girlfriend doesn't really enjoy. For example, I LOVE to have my face straddled by a woman when giving oral sex. My girlfriend doesn't like receiving in this position.

The big thing though is really just the idea of having sex with a woman who may have physical traits my significant other doesnt...which gets my physical blood flowing! I am prepared to hear all types of responses, even those that may entail telling me what I've said spells trouble in my relationship. Thank you for taking your time to read this in advance. I look forward to your feedback!-Jim