Hey hey folx.

I have been removing a lot of posts lately because they lack effort or pizzazz. So I figured I would try to explain why I do this and what you should be aiming for when posting.

The main reason for removing lack luster posts is because the bulk of them are spam bots. Ones where it is only a title post or maybe a one sentence text body.

Another reason is the none effort by posting things like:

"Looking for f/mf couple to play with, SE mi"

Yes, great it is to the point but there a thousand others that looking for the same thing and it does not say what you are wanting to do. You do not have to get into great detail, but one liners tell the potential people that may be into you nothing of substance and it comes off more like it is just about you and your desires then. No one is really interested in that and you will often get overlooked.

Adding some pizzazz that makes you stand out people tend to respond more to those posts. Again it does not have to get wordy like most of posts, but the more you give to potential partner in an initial message or post the more they know how much you all might mesh well or algin.

You can all see the posts that I approve. So take some time and look through them and see if you can adapt a post for yourself along those lines. Be specific be open and be honest.

I guarantee you will get more responses.

Am just trying to help