Hey there all you beautiful people.

As of late I have been removing a lot of posts for a being just plain lazy. Things like one liners, posts that are just shared from other subreddits, or just a photo.

I know and understand that a lot of us have a difficult time with talking about ourselves or are truly stll trying to figure out things. Like what we are looking for, or even still trying to self identify. However, a consistent theme everyone hears about online interactions with people is this inability to actually ever meet anyone offline.

Trust me, it has taken me a long while to be able to filter through a lot of spam, flaky people or even yes the stalker type people. So here are some tips that hopefully help you in your pursuits.

Posting tips 101:

1. It is in the details. Quick one line posts or messages for that matter are typically ignored. Even long draw out ones like this post are typically ignored. Short one liners that just your asl or what you are looking for are boring. It doesn't make you stand out and honestly you probably fuck just as fast as it was to read it. Overly long ones are also ignored because it is the internet and few people want to read or have the attention span in which to read through them. There is a happy medium though. A short paragraph ranging for 3-5 sentences is a good start. It does not have to be super detailed or personal, but something that could peak someones interest and something that they can start the conversation with you about. Other than just "Hi, how are you?".

2. Be creative. "But Rex am not creative at all". Bullshit...we are all creative in our own unique ways. We just fear what others will think if we post this or that. Especially when it comes to kinks, or fetishes. And yes, you will probably get ews or gross or other negative feedback from a small percentage. Most will actually just be hmmm interesting but not for me and even some that are into it also. You just have to get it out there. That's part of what this group is. A kink of sharing sexual partners. Not for everyone but there are plenty of us that are into it.

3. Be honest. Do I have to explain this?

4. Pictures. They paint a picture and help establish some attraction as the majority of sexual attraction is visual. But if all you got to work with his a dick pic, or a clit shot it is obvious you probably do not have much else to deliver. More people want to see your face so they know if there is that attraction. That is far more unique than the dicks and clits that start looking the same after a while. So if you are discrete and hiding certain preferences or that you are cheating on a partner, so you cant show face. Do not expect alot of return.

Following those steps should help increase your chances greatly and if there is something else that helps please share with the group.