Good starting point for understanding the swing lifestyle is to begin with knowing what we are doing here.

How we think of what happens or what could happen or what actually happens I believe will definitely help us in these discussions and the learning. So I am going to start with a orgies. As I just recently attempted to host an orgy I wanted to share some things I experienced as host master that you may or may not be aware of. There was a lot of questions I was asked along the last 4 weeks about my venture that I did not precieve were things that people thought. So I will be breaking them down into conversations pieces. Please provide input or other questions or just contribute without trolling or inciting. These are discussions not propaganda for agendas.

So when I first posted about the orgy I was approached rather quickly by people especially couples wanting to join. I was so ecstatic that i began to panic a bit thinking I might have to put a hard limit on just how many people were going to join. Until the questions began about who was attending. Ages, attractiveness, even down to dick sizes or how many were bisexual were common themes of questions.

Preferences...let me start by being 100% honest as I always am. Preferences are 1 million percent ok have. I have them myself. There are certain criteria I prefer when engaging in sex with people. Sexual attraction is a personal thing. Some things do it for it, other things do it for others. Does this determine who I was allowing to join the event. Fuck no. A sexual preference is not a determination and not a requirement. An open mind and tolerance is though. We see enough discrimination and hatred in out lives it is overwhelming at times. Sex is not a place for that in my opinion. Sex should be open and free, cause during it we are all very vulnerable. We are naked physically and hopefully mentally. We are experiencing emotions and endorphins that are giving us immense pleasure and joy, at least hopefully that is what you are experiencing.

So when it comes to orgies and the swinging community I would suggest dropping some expectations and try to be more open with who is there. We are not all 7-8-9 inch porn stars or thin waist with 38 DD breasts. We are not all white or black or any specific color. Some of us like dick some of us like pussy some of like both at the sametime. The point is please try to be open minded and open to experiencing other types than your idolized fantasy.

This is also not a preach about accepting everyone out of your sexual biases. Please have them I encourage them, definitely go find your idolized fantasy and take that big ole 10 incher and rock hard abs and tight pussy 20 something year olds. Or grab that big guys belly or that those thicker thighs and get deep in there. Whatever you like is great and perfect, but do not be afraid to explore somethings out of that box.