Is it going to happen? Next week, my wife and I are going on vacation. The city has an upscale swingers club. Last night, I was reading through some social media posts about things for adults to do. The first sentence if the first response was, "There's a swingers club on (street address)." The post went on with 9 other things that had nothing to do with sex or swinging. I read it aloud to my wife, reading the part about the swingers club, but kept reading acting like it was nothing. My wife asked me to read the first one again. I told her there was a really nice swingers club. She paused and said, "Understand, I still don't to see you with another woman." My response, " Baby, I'm not interested in that. We've been talking for over a year about adding a guy. I want to be responsible for that and be there with you. Most likely if we would actually go, we'd just observe. In a place with such a sexually charged atmosphere, I'll get very horny for you and will probably start fingering or licking you." She said, "You mean in front of people?" Me: "Abso-fucking-lutely! If another guy comes up and asked for your consent, it's completely up to you, but you'll be sucking my dick while he fucks you." She was quiet for a minute but was lookong at me the entire time. Then, calmly but in an odd, aggressive way she said, "We're going."

I hope she doesn't change her mind.