After a ton of things happened with this package (not going into detail since i did in first/second post but in short package was sent to old address , tried to retrieve it , drama occured and was marked returned to sender , went thru usps just to attempt getting it) dust settled and it got returned to sender, and luckily mercari refunded even though it was autorated and paid out since it showed it was returned via usps tracking number. However i am still intrested in the item (since its hard to refind) sent to the right address, just it wont let me message without it saying i can no longer message the user? Am i outta luck and should start anew , or do i have a shot somehow?

(Also as a side question did mercari give the refund since it was paid out already ?)