2 months ago My ex and I broke up. We dated for 5.5 years. We were never really sexually active. Never had intercourse, and foreplay was always by me. Was very vanilla ....

We broke up 2 months ago, and I'm really feeling like I need to find a hook up. I'm interested in joining Tinder or bumble (which on do you think is best?). To meet new people and have a hook up.

However, my ex and I are still on good terms and talk almost everyday day, and I like it that waym however, I never want to get back with her as much as I still love her...

I'm afraid if I join and app, her friends or her will see. As I know her friends are on it and with tinder I don't have their contacts to block them.

I also don't really want my friends seeing... But that's the least of the worries.

Any advice on how to handle this? I'm afraid she'll see it and it'll ruin our friendship. Should I talk to her before hand and tell her that I'll be joining, or do I just say "fuck it" and join and what happens, happens...

Thanks :)