There's a post up on a freakout sub that's shows a man dancing in a pool with others. A women starts trying to grind on him and he's constantly backing away. His wife approaches and grabs his arm to pull him away and snacks the back of his head. Then a man approves her and starts dancing with her. All the comments show positive response.

The way I see it is a man enjoying himself and gets a women that starts grinding on him. He tries to keep distance and she follows until his wife shows. He gets hit for being harassed and everyone thinks it's a good video? If a man we're to do that to a women there'd be outrage, but a man in that situation is supposed to be what grateful?

Maybe it's due to what I've experienced, but I find unwanted contact to be something that really bothers me. It got to a point where I refused to go to any clubs or bars when I was younger since it happened every time. No one ever seemed to understand why it bothered me, but yet supported girlfriend's and such when they got upset seeing it happen to me.

Is this just a me thing, and others would be fine with this?