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I'm in a friend group of which especially one person is very often sexually objectifying women. I'm usually unable to say anything against it because he often stays in a gray area where it's not extreme enough to get upset about but enough to feel uncomfortable, even as a guy. Do you ever adress locker room talk and if so how and when?
Edit: There are some people in the comments who are pointing out that you can admire someones physical features without it being objectifying. Maybe you can, idc. In the original post I was talking about the instances where the person in question clearly and publicly reduces women to his fantasy and makes condescending remarks when the womens features don't match his ideal, without giving any subjectifity and respect of the womens personhood at that moment. If you're trying to defend such cases of sexual objectification then maybe you're thinking too much into it
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