I’m trying to come to terms that the chances of me being alone is pretty strong. I’m attractive but overweight, 50 and scared by all the things I’m learning about menopause; plus I just want to have sex and go on dates. However it’s really hard for me to meet men and I honestly think it will never happen for me or when a chance may come …I may not have the desire anymore. Then I read about women and vaginal atrophy and these women are maybe 2-5 years older. Most of my girlfriends no longer have periods while mine still comes every month. I’m just afraid of never being wanted, never having sex and going thru this next chapter of life. I got my first period when I was in 5th grade so around 10 years old. I’ve had it for 40 years and I just feel like when it goes so will my sex drive and I really like sex, and men …and both seem like a ship that has sailed. Does anyone else feel this way? I feel just sad 😔