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Pics of yours truly are available in my profile, both SFW for your everyday browsing and NSFW ones at your own risk.

About me

• 33M
• 6'1, 95kg
• Works out regularly though by no means jacked.
• full time UX designer

Hobbies and interests are the usual nerdy reddit fair of gaming (a lot), anime, scifi/fantasy and reading. Also included are the basic level interests of exploring new restaurants, cooking, keeping fit (weights, cardio) and a good road trip. I also stream on twitch regularly and I have a pet bird, a Sun Conure, who's nearly 20 years old that i've had all her life.

My music taste is mostly EDM. The harder the better. Throw in some irish folk music, epic music, gothic dark/synthwave, K-pop, selective portions of Metal and accapella/non-instrument using music.

For those curious: MBTI style is INTJ. Enneagram is 426. Love Language preference are Physical Touch, Quality time and Words of Affirmation in that order, followed by everything else. I like to show affection by being a caring figure, a source of advice, deep conversational partner, making food for you and generally creating a safe space you can be yourself in.

I'm DDF (with tests) and GGG. Big fan of cuddles, copious foreplay, quality time sharing hobbies and other intimacy and pretty open to kink. I am open to both poly/ENM and monogamous relationships with a preference for finding a poly-nesting partner, though i am currently unpartnered.

What I'm looking for

I'm after a woman, younger than me (age gaps are fine), to build something consistent, fun and respectful with the view of potentially being something more. Playing games together, working out, exploring restaurants and anything else we can think of.

The ideal scenario is a poly/ENM arrangement built on strong communication, mutual trust and passions. I am also open to FWB/casual relationships, especially if you're not sure if you're ready for something more or if thats just want you want for the moment. Being entirely honest, if you want a shot at a more serious relationship than FWB, then being able to share my hobbies with genuine interest at least on some level is basically non-negotiable. I’ll treat you with warmness and affection either way.

As mentioned, age gaps are fine. I am happy to teach and mentor someone and provide guidance. I consider myself very patient and understanding in this regard. We can get a drink/ice cream/boba tea in the city first to suss each other out if you'd feel more comfortable.

What I offer

I’m respectful of boundaries, attentive, seek active consent and always seeing to know your likes and dislikes.

I have a place with a view over the CBD, privacy and the ability to drive, so hosting is not a problem. I am a consistent, communicative, and passionate partner that wants to give a great time to you, make you feel cared for and be a valued rock in your life that you can rely on whenever you need to unload, escape from your problems for a while or just feel good for a bit.

I love to cook and know many great spots we can get a feed, so you'll be taken care of in that regard! Cooking together or as a group is also highly encouraged.

Use Reddit chat or send a PM with as many pics and info about yourself as you're comfortable sharing :)