Fellas, I know these subs are full of scams, fakes, and flakes.

But if we’re legit SD’s then losing a little money here or there trying to verify if potential SBs are real shouldn’t be a big deal.

I just want to put a reminder out there to please, please to do everything you can to actually verify a potentials age as-well, especially if they’re between like 18-21. Don’t be naïve like me and just take her word for it.

I met a SB on one of these subs, we talked for about 3 weeks before I ended it because we just didn’t really connect well. Fortunately, the nature of our conversations never got to sexual (we only texted, no calls or facetimes).

Months went by without speaking or interacting with this girl again, and then things got really weird.

I got a Cash-App request from her out of the blue at 3am asking if I could send her money (didn’t accept or decline).

The next morning she texted me saying she wouldn’t have her phone much longer and asked if I could help (still didn’t respond because I just thought it was so strange).

The day after I started getting tons of calls and text from random numbers calling me a pedo. Apparently, it turns out the girl lied to me about her age and is potentially underage. Her mother found out she had been looking for a SD, and found my number and FB photos. She then made posts on twitter/Instagram/FB doxing me saying I had been sexting her underage daughter (again her daughter had lied to me and had never told me the truth).

I got tons of text and calls. Tons. I responded to literally everyone with pics and my entire conversation history so they could see she had lied, and eventually enough people were defending me in the comments and reporting the posts that they were removed by the various platforms. Even though things are kinda ok now, there’s no justice for you. Your attorney can’t file for defamation without locating them to serve, and even if you win what are you expecting, money? Already have that, and no more money is gonna help fix a reputation. This was just such an exhausting experience. And needing to explain to my family what sugaring is and why they may be seeing false stuff about me online isn’t fun.

HOWEVER I’M REALLY MAKING THIS POST BC I JUST SAW THAT THE DAUGHTER IS BACK ON THESE SUBS LOOKING FOR A SUGAR DADDY, AGAIN LYING ABOUT HER AGE. Her profile is verified on some of the subs, but please just remember this is just verification a person is real, not necessarily that they’re an adult.

You are your first, last, and only line of defense!

In an ironic twist, like 60% of the text I did get were from random girls asking if I was still interested in a SD.