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[Friendship] [Relationship] [Activities] 26 [M4F] Chicago/Illinois/Midwest/Online/Anywhere - Fit nerdy med field guy LF LDR into IRL monogamous long-term relationship
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alexmedlife is a male looking for a female in Activities
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Hello there, my name's Alex. I'm 26 years old, 5ft 9, athletic/fit, and working in the med field.

I am looking to get to know someone 18-28 for a monogamous, (hopefully) long-term irl relationship eventually where we both complement and make each other better people. If we live far apart, we can obviously start as LDR, but please have the intention to eventually meet irl if we find we are compatible.

Here are some things I enjoy doing/value (in no particular order). let me know if we have any in common but totally fine if we dont as it's cool to learn about another's interests:

playing tennis (haven't actually played in a bit since hard to find a consistent partner)

scenic runs (esp around the lake or park)

cooking (yes, actual full meals)

listening to music (I like pretty much anything upbeat and exciting. Only things I generally dislike are country and super heavy metal basically)

learning new things (esp science, philosophy, psychology, medicine). you don't need to be as nerdy and into science as I am, but I do really love at least a genuine interest to learn new things about whatever YOU are interested in.

honest open communication (this is a big one for me. I truly feel that almost anything can be resolved if two people properly communicate their wants, concerns, feelings, etc. At worst, you learn that you two just aren't compatible and can peacefully move on without the typical drama)

(re)learning how to play the electric guitar

exercise (I'm around 155ish lbs, toned (aka have 6 pack but not like 9-inch biceps lol), I run a few miles 2x a week and then walk quite a bit to get to places since a lot is very close. I do NOT expect you to be as or more active (although that would be AWESOME as I'd love an exercise buddy to keep each other motivated)).

single, disease, drug, and child-free and expect the same (but it's fine if you've smoked weed as long as it's not your whole personality lol)

and then the usual watching movies (mainly sci-fi, action, comedy. esp like ones that make you think such as Interstellar, Inception, Limitless, etc), shows, memes, educational/funny youtube vids, etc.

Apparently, we are not supposed to post pics in posts so message me for some. Also, while you don't need to send a casual pic right away (although that would be awesome), I would expect us to know how we each look and sound eventually.

highly prefer other apps for communication like discord, snap, kik, etc but it's fine if we stay on here till more comfortable with each other. I promise to respond to everyone and will never randomly ghost as I hate that as well.

Edit: If the post is still up, I'm still looking :)

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