[FULL DISCLOSURE: I have a disability (FAS or fetal alcohol syndrome). Don’t message me if you have a problem with this. I’m happy to answer any questions you may have. If you think my disability is going to negatively impact you having a relationship with me, don’t waste my time by messaging me. Not everyone who has a disability falls into the same box or category. I know what I’m looking for in a relationship. I hope you can look past that and see the person I am inside.

Hey! ✌️🏾 I’m Becca. I’m a 5’3” curvy African-American woman who lives in Minnesota, United States (born and raised). I’m looking for a man *between 23-33 years old. Race/ethnicity doesn’t matter to me. I’m looking for a man with similar tastes in my self-description below. *I’m sorry it’s ridiculously long! 😬🤦🏾‍♀️**

I’m an LGBTQIA ally, social justice warrior (Black Lives Matter, helping find murdered and missing indigenous women, stopping illegal drilling on indigenous land), against the deportation of immigrants, legal or illegal), and a disability rights advocate.

I’m loyal, pretty much fluent in sarcasm, emotionally mature, and very family-oriented. I’m very easy-going and open-minded. The multiple keys to my heart are consistency, loyalty, honesty, and a good sense of humor. Communication is also something I value highly in a relationship.

I don’t smoke, drink or use drugs, by the way. I’m 420-friendly, though (I don’t smoke weed or anything like that, but I’m fine if you do).

I’m currently learning Samoan, Hawaiian, Tongan and Māori. Watching anime subs has helped me learn Japanese, as well as listening to K-pop and watching K-dramas. I’m in no way fluent in any of these languages, unfortunately. 😂 I’d really appreciate some help learning, though. 😁

My taste in music varies between heavy metal (Beartooth, Bad Wolves, I Prevail, The Hu, Crystal Ignite, Metallica, Alien Weaponry, Shepards Reign), hip-hop (2 Pac, Eminem, Drake), Aussie drill (ONEFOUR, Brothers, Chillinit, Complete, Kerser, That Kid Kearve, Say TrueGod?, Hooligan Hefs, Lisi, Sydney Yungins, Young Lipz, 21 District, HP Boyz, Cellyonefour, J-emz ), Aussie rap (Ch33ky, Mac11, Morse Gang, Remorse, Tipene, Sid Diamond, David Dallas, Entyce, Hulkstah), instrumental (Lindsey Stirling, David Garrett, Taylor Davis, Peter Crowley, Marcus Warner), and acapella (Pentatonix, Peter Hollens). Oh and musicals (Les Miserables, The Sound of Music, and Hamilton). So get ready for impromptu karaoke, without the crowds of strange people. 😅😂 Also, I can’t sing so... Yeah 😂😂

I love extreme sports like skateboarding, snowboarding, surfing, and watching rock climbing and cliff diving. I’m also a huge fan of boxing, martial arts (I’m currently a 2nd-degree black belt in taekwondo), MMA, WWE, UFC, rugby, soccer, football (Vikings), basketball (Timberwolves), and baseball (Twins). The New Zealand All Blacks are my favorite rugby team.

I’m an anime lover, fantasy/sci-fi nerd (Marvel is better than DC, so is Star Wars. Change my mind 🤣), fan of Naruto, ATLA, Legend of Korra and a diehard Potterhead (Gryffindor). Animals have always held a special place in my heart as well.

I’m looking for a man who knows how to treat a woman right, is respectful, emotionally mature, compassionate, romantic, honest, trustworthy, and marriage-minded. Someone to grow with and learn from, who will be there through the darkest moments of my life to the happiest moments.

I’ve been in some shitty, abusive relationships. If I’m in a relationship, I’ll give it 150% my all and then some. As long as you are who you say you are, and prove to me/show me that I’m worthy of your love, then you’ll have my heart forever! 🧡 *If you’re homophobic, racist, misogynist, xenophobic, enjoy sleeping around or cheating, an anti-masker, a Trump supporter, “all lives matter” fanatic, or someone who has a fetish for black women, DON’T reply to this.*

TL;DR: I’m weird, quirky, and an all-around cool person! *If you read this unfortunately long message to its’ entirety and you share similar beliefs/ like the same things as I do, please message me “When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change” with the person who said the quote and the show it’s from. That way I’ll know who’s serious about a long-term relationship. Bonus points if you know where this quote is from WITHOUT looking it up! 😉*