Hi! I'm a bright and colorful girl who recently reinvented herself. I say girl instead of woman because in my mind I still feel like I'm in my twenties. I like talking to people of all ages just please be 18 . I consider my personal style to be Penelope Garcia and Cyndi Lauper's love child. 😝

It's hard to talk about myself without talking about my illness. I have a chronic illness that causes debilitating fatigue and non refreshing sleep, among dozens of other symptoms. Basically I always feel like I have been up for more than 24 hours, even right after I wake up. It's very hard to explain and very hard for others to understand. There are also cognitive issues, sensory overload, and mood swings. I'm putting all this out there because I get ghosted a lot. I am very cognizant of my issues and do my best to manage my mood and anxiety along with my therapist.

Because I can't leave the house much I love to chat online. I also love to crochet, do origami, and play Disney Dreamlight Valley. I'm a huge nerd who loves star trek, star wars, and all kinds of Sci fi and fantasy.

I'm in an ethically non monogamous relationship with my amazing fiancé who is actually my high school sweetheart. We were apart for 25 years and found each other again after I left a long abusive marriage.

For us, ethically non monogamous means that I am free to have emotional and romantic relationships online as long as I stay within the boundaries we have set and communicate openly with my fiancé. I'm not really looking for romance at this moment though because I've had a lot of heartbreak. I'm mostly just looking for a genuine connection with someone who will not ghost me.