I’ve been on this site for almost a few years now, on and off hoping to find my person, someone I can build my life and settle down with. I’ve met some decent people and even dated for a bit, but otherwise it’s been an up and down path towards true love (that’s part of  life right?)

Having gone over the past conversations I’ve had, I’ve noticed that a big chunk of the men who reply are not looking for anything serious, or just looking to make friends or get laid. Or they don’t put forth the effort in getting to know someone. **I’m avoiding all that.**

 This is a genuine post. I’m not doing this for karma.

A little about me: I’m 40, single, no kids yet. I’ll be upfront that I’m plus size. Also Latina (though more mixed mutt). I'm not shy but sometimes I can be.

I like to believe I’m funny; I enjoy teasing those I love. I'm supportive, honest, loyal. I can be stubborn and feisty. I’m not for everyone, but I am for the right man.

I enjoy reading a wide load of books, cooking, watching sports (football and hockey though taking a beak from football because I don’t want to see the chiefs win another title or tater swift) love to swim also.

My job keeps me moving and I like to keep active (when I’m not lazy or tired from work) so I’m looking for the same in my partner, whether he likes to lift weights or what not. I’ve never been camping so I’d like to try that sometime or playfully spar together (I’m a tomboy at heart so I like those things). If you enjoy lifting heavy things or getting your hands dirty, I hope you don’t mind if I watch.

This is going to sound crazy but I'm also taking a chance to see if my possible dream man exists. I sometimes get a sense he's out there someone. I've had literal dreams of him. He's tall, brown hair and eyes, built, his name is Ryan and possibly a cop I guess.

I'm attracted to tall and brawny. if I could sit on your lap I'll fall in love. I'm looking for someone kind, hardworking, good head on their shoulders, funny, honest, family oriented. Near my age and please be 100% single. I prefer Caucasian because its what I've always been attracted to.

I wish everyone the best of luck in finding their love. They're out there.