"loving without expecting in return. Honesty without fearing consequences." - is something very few noble souls in past have managed to do. And I aim to become someone capable of doing that for others . 2 names strike my mind from history , mother Teresa , who had unselfish love and kindness for all and mahatma gandhi , who adhered to truth, honesty bravely .

I feel i have alot of love to give inside me.

And i don't need alot in return at this point. But I just want the person appreciates it and values it.

Also, I feel i don't really have alot to offer as a partner to someone , given that I'm a very average guy with ordinary life.

But i think I can be a good companion and friend although I always hope that even if things start from there , the woman develops a fondness for me to make me a permanent part of her life.

Here's what's good about me :

I'm hard working ( although I'm not working since awhile ), just waiting to get that clarity , opportunity and support to get started in the career aspect.

i am active in my workouts , from being sedentary earlier this year , I've become quite fit and in shape now.

I'm tall ( 6'0 ) , average looking , hygienic , good health , both physical and mental . Although it depends alot on my environment , the kind of opportunities I get to play sports , socialize etc. Being an extrovert , i derive my positivity and energy from friendly interactions.

I am honest. I understand it's pointless to say it because it's alot like a person saying " I don't ghost". You can never know until they stand the test of time.

I believe in doing loving acts of service for my partner. It gives me happiness to focus on her needs . Things like cooking , massaging her body , being her therapist, supporting her in her professional endeavors . And I'm quite open minded and adaptable .

In the modesty / confidence aspect , I'm balanced . I may have some ego , self admiration , self respect but not alot of it that it may become toxic

I'm not too selfish. I'm somewhat altruistic , kind , with a soft heart and clean conscience . And this is one reason why I'm choosing to be childfree. Because I don't want to become the cause of another human's suffering in this cruel world. I'm aware of my limitations and inability to be responsible or resourceful enough to give them a good upbringing . Like whenever the thought of having kids comes into my mind , the persistent question is "why". Would the kid want to be born given the state of my country ( and the world ).

what's not-so-good about me

A lot of things sadly. I'd love to give you a list but it's just too many things to write. Some shortcomings I'm not even self Aware of. Maybe you'd figure out as we talk more.

And it's okay if later you find me incompatible , or not a good match for you romantically . I'm okay with being friends too.

I do want to save your time though by being upfront.

I'm open to friends too but I would be more excited about the conversation if you are open to relationship possibilities as well .