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Hey cutie, happy Friday! My birthday is this weekend. I've been single since last year but still want the cozy romance of besties and lovers :)
I’m a 27-year-old Asian-American man on the East Coast. I'm a career changer graduate student studying computer science, only 2 courses until completing the Master's degree. Career change is a tough journey in this economy, but it's getting there. Dream career is quant trader, software developer, or AI engineer.
Fluent in Mandarin. Straight, agnostic, center-left moderate. Pro-choice, pro-equality. No children. Drug and disease free. Goofy sometimes dark sense of humor. Monogamous. Medium libido. INFJ, advocate. I'm far from perfect, but I believe I'm a good person.
I am (my pics) 5'11 or 6'0 with shoes, 160 lbs, chocolate eyes, strong arms & chest, plus a deep soothing voice. Hopefully I'm cute/handsome according to the nerdy athlete look.
Omnivore without diet restrictions, and I prefer to limit carbs despite a sweet tooth, though it's cool whatever you eat. I enjoy the rare drink or edible. I eat a healthy balanced diet and exercise regularly. We can be health accountability partners or exercise together, which is an adorable bonding idea.
I like hugs, reading, investing, history, fitness, science & tech, board & video games, puzzles, language, yummy foods/snacks, ASMR tingles, FIRE movement, mental health, content that is comedy, romance, thriller, or sci-fi/fantasy, podcasts, YouTube video essays, hanging out with close friends. Hopefully we can introduce each other to our favorite hobbies, that would be fun & wholesome!
Hopefully You Are
A cute caring woman anywhere in the world who is ~23-32, at least ~5’2 (age & height are flex), any race, AAPI ally/culturally accepting, without children, egalitarian, moderate, or open-minded, tries to take care of body & mind, has healthy social media limits, has secure or anxious attachment. You make consistent effort, enjoy long-term intimacy, are loyal to a fault, and practice honest communication. Interests can be different, as long as we share goals & values. Preferably you have never cheated or ghosted, do not contact exes, and are willing to compromise and take accountability. You also happily reassure your partner how you adore him, as he does the same. My preferences seem reasonable as I also do all I ask for haha
Cons of Dating Me
I unfortunately had bad luck getting severely hurt in past LTRs, but still try to stay hopeful
Anxious-secure attachment. Have anxiety, but it's rarely present
Currently building a rewarding career (could be a pro)
Not into future parenthood, con for traditional families
Not great at taking selfies, but willing to practice with you
Pros of Dating Me
I am sweet ride-or-die boyfriend material with lots of care to give. Great at doing emotional labor & making plans. Will teach you basic Mandarin & cute nicknames. You can use my Mango account to learn Mandarin & other languages. May write you poetry or pillow talk mush lol
In the best shape of my life, so I can be your fitness partner or provide the comfiest hugs & cuddles in safe embrace
Clear honest communicator, will listen to you vent about stuff then give comfort
Easygoing & interdependent with my own time for space to recharge. Prefer at least 5 hours of quality time weekly in an eventual LTR. Have LDR experience & will make effort
Excellent credit, no debt, ample savings. Useful degree & good career prospects in tech
Never cheated on, ghosted, neglected, or lied to a SO. Honest, loyal, and supportive
Emotionally available, mental health advocate. Will text you back daily
Good home chef who will cook you yummy recipes like breakfast, brownies, and more
Homebody without many popular social media, so I offer more attention & loyalty
Avid reader, able to intelligently discuss pop culture & current events
What I Want
Eventually, the magic of a genuine committed relationship, happily ever after. The stomach butterflies & admiring smiles. Daily texts & notes to show we care. Endearing video chat dates. Happily meeting at the airport or train station. Heartwarming handholding & kissing in public. Falling asleep & waking up with each other. Exercising together & occasionally exploring new places outdoors like arcades, museums, parks, or restaurants, laughing all the way. Comfy weekends marathoning shows while snuggling. Playing board & video games, cooperating to win or competing cutely. Spending quality time, reaching couple goals & milestones as equal life partners. Growing closer to become each other’s best friend, advocate, and helpmate. Sharing the mystery of life’s sorrow & splendor. Effort, honesty, intimacy, loyalty, and everything, hopefully always.
Our Process
Please PM or Chat me a substantive message with your name, ASL, basic info/stats, our shared interests/hobbies, and any questions. As well as your favorite date ideas for us to do. Then we can share photos & move on to text or WhatsApp. Then let's chat, call, enjoy virtual dates, mutually crush, agree to become exclusive/official, meet in person, repeat to grow closer, and create a magical and lasting relationship. Thank you for reading my post! I look forward to reading your messages :D
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