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[29F] Spread the word! I'm looking for men [M] that fit what I need...check if it's you.
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Ooooooohhhhh boyyyyyy! It's me!! You're partially pink haired girl who has some NEWS. As of 6:27pm PST, I have been gained my autonomy back from a man who stole it, gave it back, asked me to never to leave, stole it back, and now he has cut me off as he phrased it. You know how you'll be carrying this huge weight on your shoulders for so long and you don't realize it until it's removed? Well apparently I've been carrying around an elephant that's been simultaneously stabbing me in the chest the whole time (round of applause for that imagery you guys).

Here's the best part. This man, who projected so much of what he did to me onto me, realized he wasn't going to win when I told him the truth: there wasn't room in my life for a person causing so much harm. Why pink haired girl, isn't that a bit harsh? Well, you see, I've been sacrificing my grades, my job, my other relationships, and so on for this person. Why? Not sure. Still working on that.

But there's always room for good. And I'm greedy. I want more good! So spread the word! Get the news out! Partially pink haired girl wants to laugh, get into the deep stuff, wants to smile when she sees your message pop up. I want to make big cheesy grins all the time. And I want to comfort you, you comfort me, support you, you support me. All the good stuff.

Here's how it works. If you agree with all these things, hit me up.

I don't gaslight women. If things must ever sadly end, I do it with respect and care. I know how to not self-sabotage so that I can keep the things that make me happy. I'm not afraid of a woman who is direct, says what she wants, and doesn't put up with the things that hurt her. I'm not afraid to make sure there's a mutual give and take within a messaging situation. I enjoy caring about another and I am open to receiving care and support back. I know that strong women can also be sweet to those that treat her right.

I have to say, if I sound bitter, you have the wrong sentiment. I'm angry at myself for giving precious time to someone who thinks I'm only worth 6 words and an emoji as farewell. Ouch. I promise you I'm worth more than that. Let's be friends if you're the guy who fits the bill. Looking forward to seeing who passes the criteria.

Love you all!

-PPHG (partially pink haired girl)

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