Hello! I’m 35, gay, from Maryland. Looking for a guy (25-49 years old) in the US or Canada to get to know for a potential long-term relationship.

Personality:

I’d like to meet someone who is also completely honest and open; who’s affectionate and loves to cuddle and enjoy mutual massages; who’s introspective, compassionate, romantic, humble, humorous, and politically left or moderate; who likes being playful, but also likes having deep conversations; and who’s a bit of a homebody that likes calm activities outside the house.

Lifestyle:

I want a guy who likes to spend more of his free time with his significant other than without. I am out, and would like you to be too so we don’t hide each other. I’d like to get married one day, so I’m hoping to find my forever king, but I don’t want kids (unless you already have kids and they’re older).

Hobbies:

I love thrifting and antiquing, museums, jewelry, scenic walks and drives, horror movies (and other movies), The Crown and some mindless TLC shows, drawing and watercolor painting, day trips, board games, and taking quick pics of nature and architecture.

Health:

I've got some health issues, so I'm often limited in what I can do - because of that, I'm not really into strenuous activity or extensive travel, and would need you to be supportive and reassuring (and sometimes lift heavier stuff for me).

Intimacy:

I’m a submissive side (/ limited bottom) and mostly the little spoon, looking for someone who's a more dominant side or top and mostly the big spoon. I prefer guys who are at least a little bit chubby. I’m short, white, and have some body hair and an average build. Good hygiene is a must. Must be willing to share a face pic of ourselves early in our communication to know if there is attraction.

Gender:

Though I’m biologically male and bald with facial hair, I'm nonbinary - which, if you're not familiar, means I don't feel either completely male or female internally. I've got personality characteristics of both.

Communication:

Important: Please only respond if you can provide consistent, frequent communication and match my effort with long responses addressing what I’m saying and asking me questions to get to know me. Otherwise, I will lose interest fast. I want to feel like I’m being pursued and not the only one doing the pursuing!

Please DM me and don’t comment on this post because I don’t get comment notifications.

Hope to hear from you 😎