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Is there any significance in being visited by a dead relative 3 days after death anniversary?
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I hadn't thought a lot about my grandma's death since she passed in 2019. I wasn't always the best grandson and we often butted heads but she let me live with her since I was 11 until I moved out at 24. She wouldn't even take rent money from me and insisted that instead I save it for school. I know she loves me but I didn't always feel the love bc she was (understandably) frustrated with my mother.

Any way a little while ago I dreamt of her for the first time since her passing. I was running away from a bear sleeping chilling in the shade, and into "my aunt's garage" (it wasn't her garage but you know how dreams are) which is sort of a normal thing for me. I often dream about bears going about their business and usually I can't run in my dreams bc my legs do that thing they do when you're dreaming. Catching up behind me was a man (a utility worker of some sort) I hadn't seen before but he was also running away from the bear, I closed the garage and he was out there saying pls there's a bear so against my better judgement I let him in bc bear.

My cousins are also in the garage but they're much younger like when we were kids. My aunt comes into the garage, asks why the dude is there. I tell her about the bear and she invited him inside the house to chill until the bear leaves. Anyway there are two doorways into the garage almost like the house was built in a circle, similarly the way my grandmother's house was built where you could run around the inside in a circle. I started going towards the other door opposite of the one my aunt, my cousins and the utility man went into. I don't exactly know why I just did. I right when I'm about to open the door my it opens and my grandma is on the other side. Instantly I'm a kid again, I know this because I call out "GRANDMA!" in excitement when I leap to hug her, I'm right at chest hight she's also a bit younger like how she was when I was a kid. She says, "Hey sugar!"

It was a very tight and warm hug. I was so excited to see her I told her I missed her and that I didn't know she was here. In the dream I never realized she had passed. She's asks me how I'm doing and I tell her I've been great and I'm about to finish college this semester. She says, "Really? I'm so proud of you." I don't remember much of the conversation but I remember we were talking for a little while, I was sitting on top of the dryer. I'm realizing now near the door were the same washer and dryers that were in her house. I don't ever think she left the doorway, other than the step she made to come through the door. I ask her if she remembers when we went to 6 flags, she does. I ask since everyone is here, if we all can go to Knott's since last time we went to 6 flags. She gives me a closed lip smile that looked a little sad. She said "Yes, it sounds fun. I'd like that." I'm excited so I hop off the dryer and give her a big hug and say "thank you Grandma!"

Then I wake up, I'm super excited and I'm thinking I should hit up the family bc Grandma wants to go to Knott's. I'm going through my contacts to figure out who I should call first then it dawns on me she's passed. I asked my aunt the next day off she had also dreamt about her that night she said no. The dream happened 3 days after the anniversary of her death, October 19th. She would have been 70. Over the summer, I was chatting it up with a dude in a bar and mentioned that my grandmother is my guardian angel and that even though we butted heads she still loves me and watched over me. He also said she's a very powerful woman. He is the only person who mentioned it unprompted. I had a reading by a friend a day or so after the dream who also said she was powerful. In her reading she says my grandmother sees me as the knight of swords. Which is a bit strange bc coincidentally whenever I do a reading for myself for others regarding myself in relation to the them the knight of swords often comes up.

All this to say is there any significance in her visiting in my dream 3 days after the anniversary of her passing and/or her seeing me as the knight of swords?

TLDR: Dreamt of healthy grandmother for the first time since her passing, 3 days and 3 years after her passing. Is there any meaning/spiritual reason to the 3 years 3 days thing or that she sees me as the knight of swords?

If it means anything I've led a trail of flowers to her ofrenda today, but haven't dreamt of her since the 22nd. Tomorrow I'll be putting her favorite fruit on the ofrenda.

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