Hope this post resonates with someone. I'm 39 now, after I've discovered reddit, after being a Tumblr refugee, I find discussing and interacting with others it's the best orgams I have. Once upon time it would just be pics or vids that would get me off. I found this was more of superficial get off. Thinking more of wham bam thank you ma kinda cum. It was good but after I started interacting with others I found a more intense and sensual type of orgasm It's now gotten that I canr simply get off to vids or pics, it's more of a foreplay. Actually talking and interacting with others is best kind of kink for me. Learning about people's experiences and what they like or who they do, or just fantasises they have is what I like best Are you like me? Have you found real actual interactions are the best way to get off? Or are you still able to achieve your best orgasms via porn and the like?