See the pinned post on my profile for more details.

I'm a 35-year-old white dominant male from Southern United States, central time zone. I'm looking for one or more masochistic, bubbly, energetic, and submissive women or fully-passable MTF trans women to be my soulmate(s) and wifey(s).

About Me

I never go halfway in a relationship; when I fall in love, I almost always fall head over heels. However, that is a double-edged sword. I have a constant, around-the-clock need to both give, and receive, love and affection. And when I say "constant," I mean that literally. One of my more recent exes and I had a falling out because my need to constantly give 24/7 love and affection was smothering her and intruding on her independence, while my need for her to constantly reassure me, multiple times a day every day, that I'm the best lover she's ever had was draining on her, phsychologically.

One time, a girl dumped me because she didn't respond to me after only 2 hours, and when she finally got a moment, she came back to her phone to find me ranting and raving about being ghosted.

I am clingy to an unhealthy degree, so my sub & wifey will have to be just as clingy as me. She has to be someone who actively doesn't want to have a life without me in it, someone who is actively repulsed by the idea of having "alone" time, but who just wants to spend every single second of every single day with me, even if we're not doing anything together. Just being in the same room together should be the bare minimum, as long as it's around-the-clock, 24/7, except when we're at work.

I am so clingy, in fact, that I have had my clinginess be compared to that of a narcissist in the "love bombing" stage of the relationship. I assure you that I do indeed feel powerful empathy for my partners, sometimes way too much. But the comparison has been made more than once.

My Kinks and Preferences

I am straight, but can still accept an MTF trans woman. However, you need to be 100% passable, except for your ladydick. You must look, sound, and behave EXACTLY like a woman with clothes on.

My biggest kink is S&M. Specifically, I love to use my slaves as punching bags, with strangle-kisses being a very close second.

If you're not a masochist, then at least be willing to accept a closed triad (not an open relationship, or a V), so I can still find a masochist to complete that side of me.

If you were mine, then we're talking hours-long naked cuddles where I smother you (and I mean … ABSOLUTELY SMOTHER YOU) in kisses while I tell you how much you complete me in 5,000 slightly different ways. We'll watch a movie every night and we'll analyze the plot, themes, and character arcs together. We'll play video games together all the time. Also, savage beatings every day. Oh, and strangle-kisses. Lots and lots of strangle-kisses. Plenty of regular kisses, too!

My vanilla interests are video games and Youtube/TikTok videos. The Elder Scrolls is my favorite franchise of all time.

Potential Deal-Breakers

Before we continue, I want to get a few things that could be potential deal-breakers out of the way.

I'm not here for hookups, one night stands, or FWBs. I want my soulmate, my WIFE! So if you're not looking for that too, please pass me over!

Second, you'll be relocating to me at your own expense. I'm not asking you to hop in your car right this minute. It will take MONTHS of talking online before we get to that level! But I want you to understand that I expect a live-in relationship in the future.

Last but not least, when we first meet online, we will exchange custom video selfies. Not just an image, but a VIDEO where we look into the camera and say a custom sentence. I will give you a sentence, and I expect you to IMMEDIATELY create a video where you look directly into the camera, providing a clear shot of your face, and saying that sentence, so you won't have enough time to make a deepfake.

This is to protect myself from fakes an scammers. If you're real and serious, this shouldn't be a problem for you at all. This is only a problem for African scammers who just want to take my money, as well as men who are just looking to catfish.

My Ideal Wifey

My ideal wifey(s) would be super nerdy, super introverted, a homebody, who is just as clingy and co-dependent as I am, who actively doesn't want to function without her significant other, who WANTS to spend every single second of every single day with me, even if we aren't doing anything together; simply being in the same room should be the bare minimum.

Ideally I want someone who is filled to burst with energy and fire! By all means, twerk, twirl, spin, jiggle, and do so with a smile on your face! Kink-wise, my ideal partner should be cravenly submissive, wanting to be at my beck and call 24/7, and who loves extreme pain. Of course, non-masochistic women can still be considered if they're willing to do the closed triad thing. At least then, I can still find another girl to fill that purpose. While I'm looking for a masochist, I don't want a brat. I can handle a smartass and playful teasing, but if you're the kind of girl who brats just because you like poking the bear, then we are not compatible. I don't mind littles. We can absolutely do DD/LG, as long as it doesn't interfere with my S&M kink.

Now, notice what I didn't include: Anything about your physical appearance. There's a good reason for that: I don't give the slightest shit how you look (as long as you look like a woman). In fact, I'd actually prefer it if you're ugly or fat, not so I can body-shame you, but because you won't be used to getting compliments, which means you're more likely to appreciate the genuine affection that I smother you with.

But I expect that to go both ways. I need a girl who doesn't care about looks. Some women have found me attractive, but it's not universal. I've been burned several times, because we started talking, getting to know each other, only for several women to suddenly dump me once we exchange selfies. Please only contact me if looks are not important to you. Honestly, even if you ultimately find me attractive (which isn't out of the question), if there is even the possibility that you wouldn't fall in love with me if I'm too ugly for you, you're already too shallow for me anyway.

Same thing with money. I am not rich. I can support myself, but if you are looking for a man to financially support you, you're in the wrong place. Gold diggers need to fuck off.

Wrap-up

If you still think you can handle me, hit me up! When you DM me, answer these questions:

1. Can you handle my clinginess and even reciprocate it?

2. How much of a maso are you?

3. Are you willing to do a closed triad with another girl?

4. How much do you care about my physical appearance?

5. What are you vanilla hobbies?

6. Aside from S&M and clinginess, what do you look for in a man?

7. Are you able & willing to do the video selfie verification I mentioned earlier?

8. Are you able & willing, to relocate within the continental USA, at your own expense, in 9-12 months time after meeting me?

9. Prior to relocating to me, will you ever ask me for money, for literally any reason whatsoever?

10. If you decide to break it off with me, do you promise to at least give me one single explanation as to what exactly I did to make you lose interest before you block me (so I can adjust my behavior in the future), or will you simply block me with no warning?

Bonus question for MTF trans: How passable are you when wearing clothes?