Ok so basically a lot of my clients are chatty and like to ask me a lot of questions (even though I have problems talking to people, but that a seperate issue), and eventually they all ask me if I'm dating anyone and stuff and I always just say something like "Oh ya I have a partner." and I'll refer to my girlfriend using only they/them, like I feel like I have to hide that I'm dating a girl because I always try to make sure the clients are comfortable and feel like they are in a safe space and it feels like if my female clients found out I'm a lesbian then maybe they won't feel as safe or comfortable around me? Am I just overthinking it or something?