Hi, I deal with a lot of chronic pain and other systemic issues. I need to get a massage but I am afraid of getting a professional massage. I get aroused very easily especially with touch and massage. For my isssues deep tissue massage works the best and I don’t know it always arouses me too. I guess because I’ve been afraid to get professional massages so I went to partners. But as my pain gets worse my partner is only making it worse (most likely because they are hurting me because they don’t know what they’re doing) I’m also aware that you aren’t a sexual relief person and I don’t want any massage therapist to feel that way. I was wanting to know your guys opinion (as therapist who are own Reddit) to what do you do if a guy ejaculates when trying to manage pain. (I swear it’s my only intent)

(I struggle with neuropathy, crohns, shattered lumber, and a miscellaneous of other issues)