(Masochists of all shapes, sizes and ages welcome!)

Ever felt like pain is the only way to make you feel? That you can’t get pleasure without some sort of pain? That vanilla sex doesn’t quite do it?

Good. I want to hurt you. You exist to be in pain.

Searching for a masochist for pain play. Don’t be afraid to message if you’re interested. I’d love to help you learn and work through it.

So about me I’m a 32 YO male dom who’s been in the lifestyle for over 10 years having had both online and IRL subs.

Professionally I am a firefighter and paramedic so I can take care of you as well as use, abuse and torture you. I love my job it’s chaotic which is something I need in my work and it allows me the control I crave.

I would definitely describe myself as a man’s man, athletic build, and conventionally attractive with a great smile!

In my free time I love working out, have a pretty athletic build, love being outdoors and run and lift quite a bit. I spend time watching tv, playing games and working with my hands most other times.

I am a pretty heavy sadist/masochist I love giving pain and mixing it with pleasure to create a very interesting dynamic. I enjoy degradation, humiliation, misogyny. I love edging, orgasm control, and denial mixed with pain making you choose between the two! 😉 I will post a list of the majority of my kinks but I love tons of praise, affection and aftercare for good girls. 😏

Kinks include, Chastity, edging, orgasm denial, humiliation, degradation, gaslighting, free use, breast and nipple torture, impact play, pain, pussy and clit torture, anal, stretching and gaping, TPE, use, abuse, control, CNC, choking, slapping, spanking.

I like the idea of not just focusing on kinks but each other, our lives, likes, dislikes, opinions and anything else as I feel it deepens that connection!

I’d love to create an obsessive, intense connection with someone. Hope to chat soon!