So I'll start by saying that while I have seen sissy content the only part of it I like about it is being with one, not being one myself. Which is kinda why I came here because this community seems to focus on being able to still be a dominant, if one so chooses, and enjoy chastity.

A few reasons why I think I could maybe benefit from it are these.

One, I think I have a problem with masturbating more frequently than allows for enough sex in my relationship. For whatever reason I have had a lot less sex despite a partner that wants it from me all the time. I think this is because I largely would masturbate like once a day before the relationship and my libido is gone until I do it again.

When we do have sex, I don't tend to last as long as I like sometimes. About half the time I can make sure she cums first, but I want it to be everytime. Also due to infrequency there tends to be some other understandable issues on her part.

I feel like if I had it then I wouldn't be masturbating too much and when I do it would be because of her wanting my cock and and have more sex with her.

Plus, idk why, but since I have a PA, something about wearing a metal cage, with a closed ring in to make it inescapable, makes me hard, and just somehow seems right and maybe even comfortable.

Can anybody sympathize, give advice, or perspective? I'd be appreciative of anything, thank you.

P.S. I'm trying to find some type of clothing/sock/pouch (w/e you'd wanna call it) for my balls that I could wear along with it. The closest thing I've found is called "Happy Sacs" but they don't really have the aesthetic I had in mind, which I understand might not be a concern for something I'd rarely see but I'm trying to find something else if possible.