I feel like on this sub and others there seems to be a bulk of guys into chastity that want to be in it long term and denied orgasms.

If that’s not your preference with chastity, can you elaborate on what parts of chastity are hot for you?

I am really into the idea of locking up my male partners but more as a symbol of ownership. I want his cock locked because it’s mine and I’ll take it out to use it as often as I please. I also have really hot feelings about unlocking him so he can go on dates with other people. Sploosh. I like access to his cock and I’m not up for giving that up.

I’m hoping to find an intersection where my partner and I can both find things hot about this kink.