Alright, I’m a 40M Queer top, married to a woman 37F Pan switch.  I’m 6’5” 330 lbs, with graying hair and beard, I like to dress in a somewhat outlandish way so I stand out even more.

I’m looking for something that seems much harder to find than it should.  I’m searching for a woman or couple to play solo and as a couple where both members are capable of holding contradictory thoughts.  I want a relationship that can be incredibly depraved, with dehumanizing kinks and sexual acts while simultaneously being egalitarian, open and standing up for yourself.

I’m NOT looking for a closed relationship.  I would love to build a community together.

Outside of kink I’m a voracious reader(Fantasy and Sci-fi mostly), Gamer(Tabletop, board games) modeler(the plastic models, not doing modeling, sorry), I also have been getting a lot more exercise lately because I love animals(Dogs are great, if high energy)

I want a relationship where I degrade and tear you down in the bedroom, have romantic lives with cute activities, like lazy mornings where I make waffles, and mixes of the two, like a romantic picnic with bondage gear under your sundress.