Hi there! I’m looking to find someone to build a real relationship with.  A little about me, I’m 43, 6’ tall, slim/fit build, with blue eyes and dark blond hair. I wear glasses/contacts, and I keep myself clean shaven. I’m a Gemini. I’m a soft dom, I’m possessive/territorial about my partner, very much into reciprocal affection and energy, and I’m very affectionate, loving, caring, sweet, I have a big heart, I’m an emotional person, I’m empathic, and can work with and connect with the energy of someone I’m bonded to. I’m honest, hard working, reliable, consistent, and intelligent. Communication and being open is extremely important to me. I have a high libido and believe physical intimacy and providing for each others needs, mentally, emotionally and physically, is an important part of a healthy relationship. I’m very much into giving pleasure as much as receiving it. I’m something of a geek/dork and have a silly/sarcastic sense of humor. I have Celiacs, and have a special diet. My main kink is cid. I’m into a lot, I’m a gamer, gardener, I’m big into music, especially of the electronic variety, I’m into lots of movies, mostly sci-if and comedy with some horror and fantasy thrown in, as well as some tv shows, and I’m trying to re-learn the violin but would love to learn keyboard and guitar as well, reading and learning, I love to cook, I love diy projects and much more!  I am currently a smoker but transitioning into vaping. I’m 420 friendly. I have an apartment in Hagerstown and a good job that I love. I work 2nd shift, and get off after midnight or later, and am off weekends.

What I’m looking for in a relationship is someone who is emotionally available, and capable of giving their whole heart to me, as well as fully returning the love, energy and care that I give. Someone who is looking for 100% monogamy and is completely loyal, someone who is looking to build a special life together, with the goal being to live together and get married, be each other’s person and stick together through good and bad times, build and lift each other up, someone who is willing to put in the work to keep each other happy, safe, supported and secure, and keep the relationship exciting and fun. I want someone who will be as proud to be mine as I am to be theirs! My primary love language is touch, and I love skin-on-skin contact, cuddling, kissing, holding hands and more, but also words of affirmation, affection, and I love to cook for and with my partner. I love a clingy sub. I am looking to form a deep bond, something that feels good and right, where we can be everything to each other and love each other the way we need to be loved. When I love, I love with all my heart and soul, and reciprocation is so important in a partner. I want to be someone’s world, and I want them to be mine. I have been hurt a lot in the past, and been through a lot, but have grown and become better through these experiences but I am not looking to be hurt anymore. I’m looking for something that will last forever. My ideal partner would be a porcelain or pale, soft skinned, curvy/chubby, busty woman, who shares my interests and/or is open to my sharing my interests with her, someone submissive, sweet, loving, affectionate, loyal, honest and can match my energy, love and libido. I’m not big into tattoos or piercings generally. Trust is extremely important, and I should know without a doubt I can rely on you, just as you can rely on me. You should believe that making love is a way for two people to become closer, express their feelings for each other and become one.  Kinky is desired as well, but nothing gross or too painful (biting, spanking etc is ok). Mainly cid, oral, restraint, anal, public play.

Someone nearby is ideal, but I am open to you relocating to me, as long as it’s not a long, drawn out process.

Life is too short, if this sounds like you, don’t be shy, reach out!