Hello!

I am 27F. She/Her. I am located northeast of Baltimore.

I am a submissive. I have been active in the community, (going to munches, events, etc,) for about a year now.

I've had an interest for much longer.

I have several kinks. Most of them revolving around being a "plaything" or "personal toy."

I enjoy the right amount of praise, (not too much. )

I enjoy CNC and Free Use within a dynamic. If I am your sub, I am your toy to play with whenever/however/where ever you want/need.

I'm always wet and ready to use.

I enjoy suffering at the mercy of a Dom. I enjoy some sadism. Especially if I am rewarded for my endurance.

Looking for a softer Dom that is a little sadistic.

I want to feel appreciated and prized enough to suffer for them. Like yes I'm am object, but I wanna be your favorite, prized object, that you take amazing care of, so that it's usable and in great condition for a long time.

I am looking to explore and push my tolerance and endurance on pain and stamina at some point with a Dominant I can trust

The last Dominant I was interested in, I felt a lot of admiration and affection and respect for him. And the more I liked him, the more I was willing to remove from my soft limits list.

It didn't work out. And I want to feel that way again. He had me in subspace just from messages. And I want someone I'm into in that way again.

Bonus points if you can push me to reach my potential outside of kink.

I read BDSM educational books, I communicate pretty well, and I journal about my feelings and desires, hoping these things will improve the quality of a future dynamic.

Wanting to start small and work more control into the dynamic over time

Some things to keep us from wasting each others time:

1. I am polyamorous, and that would need to fit into my dynamic in some way. Monogamy is a hard limit for me. I currently have a vanilla partner who I live with and share finances with.

2. Online Only is a Hard limit - If you live outside of the US please do not message. I dont want to travel outside of the US and I dont want an online only dynamic.

3. Nobody younger than my age please. Older is fine. I dont currently have a max age limit.

4. I am short and curvy, have short hair, and don't wear makeup. Please do not message me if youre looking for someone thin, and hot.

5. I am primarily looking for an experienced Dom for a 24/7 dynamic. If you have little to no experience, I probably wont be interested.

6. Your opening message should have some content to it. No one-liners. I will skip over any messages that don't grab my attention.

7. If you have a fetlife profile, and attend local events, conventions, and munches, I'm more likely to be interested. Knowing that someone is involved in the community and trying to learn more and better themselves is a green flag for me.