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We're both married....
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This married guy at work avoids me like the plague, but has no issues talking to other women.

I work at a place where looks are important and part of the job. Coincidentally, him and I are the tallest pair on the team and also voted the most attractive. I guess he knows it too, so we just snob each other out. When i just started working there, he would gawk at me (super obvious). I remember the first time we met, he would turn his head when I walk by just to stare at me, as if he couldn't break his gaze. I thought it was really rude, so I would stare back at him, sternly. We never greet each other.

Finally, one day...I wanted to try being nice and break the ice so I would try to make casual conversation. He seemed uninterested, so after a few tries I gave up. He's not made eye contact with me since. Both him and I will intentionally greet and speak to other people, but totally ignore one another. It's like a silent war between us.

I have a feeling he's trying to avoid trouble? I'm not sure. Anyway, I've never met a coworker who deliberately avoid me like this... what gives?

Worst part is.....I keep fantasizing about him. How do I stop? Please help.

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