Hey there,

This message doesn’t have to reach everyone, just the right one.

I’m a 44M, married, kids, from the Hampton Roads/Norfolk area in Virginia. Over the years, my marriage has slowly drifted apart, and though we get along fine, the spark and connection are missing. After catching her cheating, I’ve moved past the ordeal and now, I’m searching for my own connection.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m seeking a woman who takes the time to know me—my interests, my thoughts, my dreams. Someone who makes me laugh and smile but is also supportive during rough days. Physical attraction and chemistry are just as important to me as emotional and intellectual connection. I’m not looking for perfection, but for the right fit. I value women who take care of themselves, aren’t overweight, and know how to dress nicely. Confidence in how you look is incredibly sexy.

About Me:

• Appearance: I am 6’ tall, blue eyes, brown hair, Caucasian. Average/athletic build. I’ve been told I’m a catch, have a great smile and dimples that women seem to like. All in all I think I’m doing pretty well. 
• Communication Style: I believe in open, honest, and frequent communication. I won’t ghost if things aren’t working; I’ll tell you. If things are going well, I might suggest moving to another platform for better messaging. Frequent texts, phone conversations, and video calls are ideal. Given our situations, we won’t see each other all the time, so consistent communication is key. Life is busy with families, kids, spouses, and jobs, but a little effort in communication goes a long way.

What I Offer:

• Intellectual Stimulation: I’m well-read and enjoy deep conversations about various topics. I’ll engage with your thoughts and ideas, always valuing your perspective.
• Emotional Support: I’m here to support you through your ups and downs. You can count on me to listen and be there when you need someone to talk to.
• Fun and Adventure: Whether it’s a day at the beach, exploring new cities, or simply enjoying a good meal together, I bring a sense of adventure and fun.
• Consistency and Effort: I’m committed to putting in the effort to maintain our connection. From thoughtful messages to regular phone calls, I’ll make sure you feel valued and appreciated.

If you’re looking for someone who values deep connections and consistent communication, let’s get to know each other.