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A place for married people to find and connect with other folks looking for lovers.

Moderators

Updated Nov 18, 2024
Added 4 years ago
Also moderates: r/CasualEncounters740
Added 9 months ago

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Low effort post

Any three word post will be removed. Put some effort into your post and make sure to include who you are, who you are looking for and what sort of connection you are seeking.

2

Low effort or crude post

This is a public forum. Please keep all public communications clean and use your words well to express your desires. Any three word or crude post will be removed. This includes copying and pasting the same post over and over. Put some effort into your post and make sure to include who you are, who you are looking for and what sort of connection you are seeking. If you are unsure why a post was removed start here.

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Incorrect title

Please include your age, sex, the sex of the one(s) you are seeking, and location (#online is ok but if listing a location please keep it city level instead of state or country) and a note in your title. Ex. 50 [M4F] #Columbus Ohio. Dead bedroom man seeking long term lover.

4

Post lifespan and volume

In order to keep all posts relevant and timely only one post at a time per user is allowed and that post for only thirty days. You are welcome to remove and repost in that time so long as you remove the old post.

5

Comments

There is no need to comment on any post so no comment will be approved. Please keep all communication between involved parties.

6

Be respectful

No matter what you are into in private,this is a place to be nice. Please report lapses.

7

Iā€™m the mod and I said so

If for any reason a mod believes a post should be removed then it may be with no additional reason or appeal.

8

Bans

Repeated or egregious infractions will result in a ban

9

Advertising and spam

If you are asking for someone to go to another site or pay anything this is the wrong place. This is for connections, not content.

10

Crossposting

Crossposting from other communities is not allowed.

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