Are you on my level?

We all have at least some idea of what drew us here, and at the core, we all want to fulfill our needs and wants and desires. At its essence, I want to meet and be with a woman who gets why we both are here...to make a passionate and visceral connection and be that someone who is into you, who understands you, and is your person on the other side of the life you don't tell anyone else about. I want you to be the one who is on my mind as I drift off to sleep, who I make excuses about just to see for a half hour. I want to while away my days talking to you when I should be working. I want to video chat when we can just so we can see each other.

How do we get there? It's about the the buildup, how we connect online and maybe on a call or two. It's the texts we send back and forth, getting to know each other, taking about our lives, our days...maybe about what we would do "when we meet." I'll wonder what you're thinking of when you see my picture for the first time, hoping that we'll want to know even more about each other...I am very imaginative and passionate...tell me what drives you wild and I'll tell you how I would do it.

Now, imagine that we decide to meet...I'm thinking about what kind of looks we'll give each other when we first meet face-to-face. Do we like what we're seeing? Was it better than the pics? Are we feeling a little urge to go further? Are we laughing? Are you looking back at me when I try to make eye contact? Do you shiver when I brush your back...or arm...or leg...with my fingers? Do you lean in when I stage whisper something funny to you? When we leave, do we wish we didn't have to, but know it will be even better the next time?

It all begins with the build...making that first connection...let's start there.

What do you think?

A little more about me...medium build, 5'10", 180. Brown hair that's just starting to get a few salt lines, blue-green eyes...been told that I look like Harrison Ford (hopefully the Han Solo/Raiders version!). I absolutely do NOT look like what I thought 53 should look like- people usually tell me I can pass for late 30s. I am very involved with my kids and sports, am pretty laid back and dare I say funny. I'm sorta overeducated but I use it well, am great at my job, and I love music, and cooking too. Of course, there's more to me than that- ask me.

You? Age 35 ? (just pulling a number out, to be honest), takes care of yourself because it makes you feel good, and love to laugh. Understood that family comes first. Please be able to hold a conversation have a sense of humor! I love bantering back and forth, it goes a long way. I would prefer that you are married as well, for the obvious reasons.

Tell me about you, what brings you here? What do you do during the day? Are you at your kid's soccer game right now, reading this and thinking your should send a note, mayve smiling because you get it? Are you home, sneaking a look at your phone, doing the same? What's stopping you from hitting the Chat button?

Click that button!...let's talk. I can't wait to see if this sort of buildup and connection is still possible...

I think it is.