That's ultimately what I want to find - a friendship that makes the day-to-day better.

Where we look forward to chatting about anything and everything, bantering, flirting, boosting each other up - that connection that comes with friendship

The friendship where the fun and banter comes with validation and appreciation. The friend who you know is going to leave you feeling better about yourself and life.

The friendship that turns into FWB as we fill those missing needs for each other - in ways that are simply fun and pleasurable - knowing it's coming from our connection as friends.

The FWB situation where we both have that high-libido and sexual curiosity, but a partner that can't meet those needs - where this can be an outlet for it in a safe and discreet way.

Overall something that is positive, lighthearted, and fun, with room and capacity for depth when needed. Where we both value and respect that neither of us are after changing our home life.

About me: A married dad in the Chico area. The dad you notice at pick up and drop-off - chatting with other parents, laughing and engaging with his kids, seems to know all of their classmates. Well educated, successful career, emotionally intelligent, witty, and probably overly sarcastic. Enjoys gym time as his "me time", loves to swim and be outdoors overall. Loves nerdy fantasy books, games, and shows. The kind of guy who loves both parts of the romantasy books you love. Clean and DD free.

About you: You're positive, fun, and flirty. Not afraid throw some sarcasm back my way and joke with me. You speak your mind and aren't afraid to be honest. Our interests align. You're married and you have kids. Clean and DD free. Ideally you're local enough that if it feels right in-person is an option. Discretion is as important to you as it is to me. And ultimately you want what I've described here.

Physically about us - attraction for this is important, but it's such a subjective thing in both directions. Let's ultimately swap pics to make sure it's there for both of us. But to give you an idea I'm tall (yes, actually 6'3" you can verify) with broad shoulders, strong arms, and killer calves! Handsome, short brown hair, clean with a short beard and cute smile. White (I know that matters to some). Athletic, with just a hint of that dad bod.

I'm attracted to women who are lean and athletic to HWP - I can appreciate some curves and a great mom-bod (seriously - mom butts in mom jeans are 🔥). I love and appreciate all skin tones. Bonus points though for kinda alt moms (any combo of tattoos, piercings, dyed hair) and moms with freckles.

If, like me, you're searching for that discreet FWB that can stay fun and light - let's connect and see where it goes.

Reach out and share with me something that you've been super interested in lately.