Hi there,

I hope you’re doing well and finding a bit of sunshine this week. ☀️

About me: I am barely holding onto my 30s, in an open marriage and have done this before (multi-year LDR). I have the ability to travel and have overnight visits. I have kids I love, a career I enjoy, and a community I’m involved in. My personality type is ESFJ. I’m upbeat, supportive, celebratory, affectionate, enthusiastic, reliable, and a lover of lists. I love sports, enjoy being a home chef and like to relax with a book in my hand. I like to explore cities, people watch and go to bed by 10pm. I’m a high effort partner that likes to shower my partner with affection, appreciation and attention. 😎

Physically: I am 5’2”, white, brunette, glasses, friendly smile, BBW / plus sized, non-smoker and DDF. 😍

What I want in a partner: Availability - you are able to text throughout the day (weekdays and weekends) and feel comfortable talking on the phone and video chatting when convenient. You have autonomy over your phone and your location isn’t tracked. 📲

Meet ups - Ideally we’d meet up monthly for an overnight adventure. Maybe you’re a business traveler with a flexible schedule or maybe you’re a local guy who can get away for a full day, night or two. I’m looking for overnights and date nights. I use these meet ups to recharge, so I’m not looking to only have quick meet ups. 😍

Financials - you have your own credit card, financial freedom and ability to share costs equitably. My sniff test is pretty easy - if I’m having a tough day - do you have the ability to send me flowers? 💐

Physically - I tend to be attracted to taller (relative - I am 5’2”) / bigger guys, but I also crave deep emotional connection and tend to find men more attractive as the conversation and connection grow. Ali Wong said it best: “All I want is a kind 6”. :) Please be DDF and a non-smoker. Bonus points if you’ve had a vasectomy. 6️⃣

Age range: 37-45ish.

Location: I’m in Hampton Roads and willing to travel about 3 hours for the right partner. Please be able to meet up around DC, Richmond, Raleigh and the coast of VA / NC.

Dynamic - relationship vibes. I crave emotional connection, trusted friendship and sexual chemistry. I want to share good news with you and chat through tough moments. I want to celebrate your success and plan future meet ups around events / activities that interest both of us. I want us to play word games together and always say goodnight. And I want us to get to know each other’s bodies and leave trips feeling loved, satisfied and exhausted. :) ❤️

Other: please be a sports fan, have a relatively happy home life and experience with affairs / secondary relationships. If you’re in an open marriage - state that up front! :)

I know I’m asking for a lot and I hope Reddit won’t let me down. 🤞🏻

I look forward to hearing from you and please let me know what items you check on my wishlist. :)