Howdy. This is my first ever ad here so take it easy please! I’m a 31 year old medical professional married man that’s actually happy being with my wife. Well, mostly. We have a great life, connection, no kids but dogs and cats, and white picket fence house, but if I’m being honest with myself, something has always felt like it’s been missing. I’ve had a couple affairs over the years, emotional and physical, and that feeling of wanting/desire has always filled that void for me and at the same time made me a better husband/provider. Sounds selfish I know, but nobodies perfect 🤷🏾‍♂️ I recently had a falling out with my exAP (who is great), because she started feeling guilty and we no longer talk unfortunately. I think we all know how much this feeling sucks and I’ve always felt like burying myself in work/hobbies and moving on is the best thing I can do to help with grieving, which leads me to this sub.

Looking at all the posts here tells me that everybody is interesting in the following..

About me:

I’m 5’9”, fit and getting fitter everyday.

I’m into weightlifting, boxing, collecting/shooting guns, mountain biking, fishing, trying new food, listening to new music, watching new series, and open to new hobbies if I vibe!

Not a huge go out to bars kind of guy or user of hard drugs but have been known to have drinks with the occasional drag of tobacco or weed.

I work 4-5 days a week as a medical professional in a hospital so my schedule is not always free but I’m always willing to make arrangements for the right person/connection.

What I’m looking for:

Somebody who gets me and the lifestyle we all choose to live. Ideally, she’s beautiful, around my age, likes me, only sees one person at a time, and has a similar situation..

I’d like to get to know each other over messaging/phone/facetime first and eventually plan meet ups where we can enjoy each other’s company all while being discreet so we don’t blow each other’s lives up.

I’ll probably crosspost this to other subs until I meet somebody. If this sounds like something you can get behind, send me a message!