Here I am again looking for a long term OA. Looking for THE long term OA I think we all want. This isn't my first rodeo (see I am from Texas). I have had the pleasure of meeting and chatting with some great people on here. In fact my last OA was amazing, and I think I am the one that screwed it up.

To be successful I think I am looking for someone who wants to have a conversation to invest in getting to know each other. Historically people who are willing to invest in a conversation are much more successful in OA (at least in my experience). I kinda want it all, the feelings, the emotions, the excitement of a connection. With that anything and everything is possible.

A bit about me. I am 6'4" executive geek type. I run a software dev company, and work from home 100% of the time. So I have the time to invest in this. I do travel a decent bit, so open to a "stars align" type moment of meeting in person. I don't have a beard or tattoos nor am I 420 friendly. I am not opposed to any of that, it just isn't me. I love classical, reggae, and alternative music (It is all about mood), and a huge fan of the show Severance (the premise is a mind bender). Average build (Lost 55 pounds over the last year. Been told I look much younger than my 54 years. I love sci-fi, anything historical, and thank to duo lingo I am learning Japanese (It is a fascinating language). I have a 29 day streak going.

About you.

Please be over 30 (my experience is that i just don't connect with someone younger). I don't have a "look" I am looking for. I have found that it isn't the pieces or parts of a woman that make her attractive, it is the whole person. I always see a woman's eyes first, and yes it is her eyes not her "eyes". Please be a talker/chatter. I don't mind early 20 questions, but it needs to become a conversation. Also, I don't care what religion or political side of the spectrum you are. I find people that differ with me to be interesting and different ideas to be fascinating.

If you find my post the slightest bit interesting take a chance and send me a chat. I know you are lurking out there.

PS Question: What is the one thing you want to try but for reasons both in and out of your control you haven't?