One of the most exciting things about affairs to me is that there’s the potential to create something completely new. It’s a fresh start free from the things that get in the way of our current relationships. Somewhere between I do and the demands of careers, diapers, soccer games, PTA meetings and the countless to do list, we got lost. We became spouses and parents and seem to have lost ourselves. I used to be with it. But then they changed what it was and what I’m within no longer it and what is it is weird and scary.

I’m trying to build a world of imagination with you. A world that is light and free from all the burdens that might currently weigh us down. Something where we can just be us. An oasis of lightheartedness in the desert of responsibility. I want to joke and laugh and play. Flirt shamelessly through innuendo and knowing looks. I like to think of myself like a child who never grew up. I’m a dreamer and I love to see the joy and possibilities in the day. I’m a word smith and would love to paint a picture of what could be.

Don’t take that to mean that I don’t have my scars and wounds. I’ve just gotten to a place where I appreciate them for having made me who I am. I’m happy to swap scar stories to get to better know each other. I think this kind of radical vulnerability leads to better intimacy and connection, which is ultimately what I’m looking for. Let’s talk about music, philosophy, spirituality, the moral implications of shows in pop culture, and which fantasy series is the best. Let’s be kids in adult bodies who just geek out about the silliest things. Let’s let that excitement lead to passion

Physically, I’m 6’3”, HWP, shaved head, gray-blue eyes, and a goatee. Reasonably intelligent, in touch with my feelings while having them in check. I’m open to deep feelings, but respect that boundaries are important.

So do you want to be a part of this world?