I’m a 45-year-old in a marriage that has become emotionally distant and lacks intimacy. I’m looking for someone who appreciates a man who’s a little rough around the edges but genuine at heart.
I’m not the life-of-the-party type, but I’m also not shy. I prefer a quiet approach, observing and taking things in. Once I feel comfortable with someone, my dry humor and sarcasm tend to come out—I promise, it’s part of my charm.
What I Value
Time is precious, for both of us. If we meet and there’s no spark, let’s be upfront about it. No hard feelings, no drama—it’s not personal, just honest. I also value meaningful conversations that go beyond the surface. While chemistry is important, I’m not looking for something that’s purely physical.
I consider myself a high-value individual, constantly striving to improve and grow. I believe in accountability and effort, and I’m drawn to people who share the same mindset. I’m not here to play games, and I expect the same level of respect and maturity in return.
Who I Am
I’m not a supermodel or a millionaire, but I take pride in being a work in progress. Self-improvement is a big part of who I am, and I enjoy learning from books, videos, and life experiences to become a better man.
What I’m Looking For
I’m not looking to change my current situation or yours, and discretion is non-negotiable. I’m looking for someone who values authenticity and connection—someone who wants to get to know the real me as much as I want to know the real you.
If this resonates with you, let’s connect.
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