You’re probably grateful to be back at work (or your husband) after spending the last couple of weeks at various family event. I know I am.

Unfortunately, since you’re reading my post, Santa hasn’t delivered that person we have been looking for.

Let’s change it.

Here’s my suggestion. We know the coming months will be cold. What better way to combat our cold winter than by igniting a fire in our passion. Let’s make it burn so hot that we could get burned any moment, and yet we keep adding more fuel to it.

I'm 45, attached, and in a dead bedroom (and roommate) situation.

I would describe myself as one of those people that geeks out over trivia knowledge and obsess over interesting things that most people don’t care about.

However, I can assure you that I am not socially awkward like a stereotypical nerd. I am outgoing and full of energy.

I am hoping you are a great woman in an unfortunate similar situation as I am, and hoping to rediscover your passion and the joy of sex. Sexually, I am open minded and kink friendly. I would not be a red blooded man if I didn’t have my turn ons, but I can tell you more and would love to hear yours in our private chats.

I hope you will enjoy some forbidden texting back and forth during the day, and have the occasional meal, drink, or even a (secret) date every so often. I'm a big believer in chemistry and connection. As you and I are both taking a big risk to see each other, so we should at minimum enjoy each other's company during these fleeting moments that we have.

If you want wanting a fun, funny, passionate, and interesting guy, then I am him.

I know I am far from perfect, and I don't need you to be perfect either. Frankly, perfection is boring.

So, when you feeling down, what’s the one movie that you watch?