I’m looking for something that’s relatively specific and potentially non-existent, but probably worth the attempt. Quality over quantity.

I’m a well educated young professional / entrepreneur in the northeast/mid-atlantic. Attractive, good career, recently turned 30. I have a fiancé and am in a loving relationship with no intentions to change or risk that (especially not interested in being judged).

I’m mostly looking for a girl who “gets it”, whether because you’re in a similar situation or because we’re cut from the same cloth. While I don’t have the energy to invest emotionally in anyone else beyond a lighthearted friendship, I have a constant physical need for stimulation. By stimulation, that could mean everything from pervy, non-judgmental conversation/texting with the intention of edging / getting off / exploring kinks to meeting in person for that beautiful adrenaline rush.

I find that most girls who are fine with attached/taken guys are still eventually looking for something deeper or romantic rather than something physically or mentally sexual and pleasurable, even if for that moment in their life. But I’m more looking for someone who I can chat with or meet up with sometimes who, when you talk to me, see me primarily as an outlet for sexual pleasure and release. I want to be able to feel that rush and be unashamed and unafraid to enjoy the pleasure of exploring freely the boundaries of our kinks and taboos, even sharing stories about our previous escapades, where there’s no such thing as “too sexual” because that’s what we’re doing this for in the first place.

Ideally you’re both educated (so that conversations can flow smoothly) and easily horny (so that messages from each other feel like a treat rather than a mood-dependent thing). Bonus points if you’re in or adjacent to the finance/investing world like me (idk something about hot girls in my field that really do it for me). We don’t have to know anything about each others actual lives. I have different kinks and aesthetics that I really enjoy, but so long as we’re not yucking each others yums I’m down for adventure.

Happy to share more and verify thru dm/chat, so if this sounds perfect to you, hmu! Tall, dark hair and eyes, fit, clean, good size, etc.