Disclaimer - not looking to leave my spouse.

I’m looking for a woman to connect with physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually. I do not have kids and would prefer to find a woman also childless. Not a dealbreaker but I find mother’s don’t have a lot of time to spend engaging with an AP. Maybe you are the exception. Also, not looking for online forever— no set timeline but I’d like to meet the right person.

Physically - attraction is important and I don’t want to waste your time. I like a woman with good hygiene, shorter than 5’7”, and has a full head of hair. She should have some OMPH in one part or the other. Age range 28-45.

Mentally - I like someone who can make me think. I’m a great conversationalist and enjoy leading but you need to match my energy or things will fizzle out. I enjoy voice, video and random pictures throughout the day. Small talk and the mundane are just as important as the deeper more serious stuff. Sexy comes after we have a mental connection.

Emotionally - I need one person to focus consistently on and commit my time/energy, not bouncing across multiple people. If you leave me on read constantly or offer short 1 sentence responses all the time, I’ll lose interest very quickly. I like a woman that takes the initiative to show off and ask for praise and equally dishes out mutual compliments. We should prop each other up. Communication is important— if you are having a busy day, just tell me.

Sexually - I like a submissive woman who isn’t afraid to let her interests be known. When the mood strikes, teasing and flirting throughout the day. Not into sexting as much as voice and video with the intent of in person someday. I cannot do a passive woman who always waits for me to make a move or give permission. When you want it, just tell me you want me.

About me: I’m a regular white-collar hybrid corporate American with no kids, my artistic hobbies, and a healthy balance of sleep, exercise, and play. Hispanic with brown eyes, grey-black poofy curly hair, and 5’7” at 180 lbs. I try to keep up with the trending shows on streaming platforms and movies in the theater. Grew up a theatre kid, so performance is in my veins. I want to be seen as a man, a friend, and a lover. I want to make you happy and you reciprocate the same. I want to feel safe and affectionate and vulnerable with you, putting all my energy to make us worth it as a pair.

Okay, tell me what you are attracted to and how you would make this work for us. I probably won’t respond if you don’t answer these questions because quality > quantity. Thoughtfulness goes a long way.